“The Key to Communication”
by Chris Reinhardt, feedlot specialist
We’ve all seen effective public speakers, and we’ve all probably met somebody who likes to listen to themselves talk. But in the management context, listening may be the most under-valued skillset of the effective communicator.
A wise man once said, “When the quiet guy in the meeting speaks up, pay attention. While everybody else has been talking, he’s been listening and thinking.” How can a team leader really meet the needs of the team if those needs aren’t known? And the only way to learn those needs is to listen—all the time.
Many managers tire of being told the value of the periodic review process. The workplace usually affords the manager plenty of opportunities to tell their team what’s not going well or what’s being done wrong. But without an intentional, purposeful, regular time set aside for 2-way dialog about the workplace, the needs of the team will likely never be heard, until it’s too late to effectively address these needs.
The needs could be personal, professional, or work environment-related. There could be problems—or good things—going on at home that the manager should be aware of. There may be potentially unsafe work conditions that a few minor changes could rectify. The team member may have both aspirations and abilities for greater challenge and opportunities; if the leader doesn’t capitalize on these abilities, the team member’s next employer will.
The point is: Catch people doing something right 7 times for each 1 time you correct them. To do that, you’ve got to spend time with them. And one way to do that is by regularly scheduling time to discuss issues well before they become crisis.