“Who Are You? – Part I”
by Chris Reinhardt, feedlot specialist
I’ve heard the phrase, “Who people see when they look at you is not the same person you see in the mirror.” We are all bogged down by a self-image which is not true—at least it’s not the same image as others see. The healthier the self-image, the closer it will be to what others see. Some see themselves as less than they are, others see themselves as more.
Sometimes, it helps to take some time to try to figure out what others see. As a manager, this is the only way to get better. Maybe you don’t see any need to get better; that’s a problem. And it tells others who you see in the mirror.
If you’ve got a superior you report to, that is possibly the most available and honest source of feedback you can get on how you’re developing as a person and as a manager. But there is also a concept called “360-degree Feedback” which can be a further aid to your self-improvement. This means people all around you in the organization provide feedback on your development issues. That includes your superior/s, your peers, and those who report to you.
Obviously, the only way this works is if those providing feedback believe their input is valued, will be incorporated, and won’t be held against them in the future. This is where humility comes in. The manager who doesn’t think there is any need for improvement need not apply. But the truth is we can all get better.
During this very busy time of year, take time to get feedback from your entire team. Make this a development goal. Consider this: if you are a better manager, you will have a better team, a more productive team, and a more sustainable team. Employees who feel their input is valued are more content and more productive; they give more when the times require it. Employees who feel their manager is truly trying to get better want to help—why wouldn’t they?